AM I OKAY? The book about femdom for the confused Chapter 1. What attracts people to femdom Cuckolding, slave-training, spanking and other femdom practices are humiliating. According to pornhub.com, femdom videos are often searched for using phrases that include the word "humiliation". The phrases used are "femdom humiliation", "cuckold humiliation", "sissy humiliation", "small penis humiliation". This suggests that people are looking for humiliation in femdom. Since all femdom practices attract with humiliation, the conclusion suggests itself: if a person likes one femdom practice, then he must like others, because other practices contain humiliation too. However, people differ in their preferences. For example, for some self-mutilation may seem too painful or sucking a lover's cock as a cuckold may seem too disgusting. When such kind of negative feelings prevail over pleasant ones, a person is not interested in a particular femdom practice. Sometimes negative sensations appear so quickly that a person even does not have time to see anything pleasant in practice. Also, the person may simply not understand why some femdom practices are considered humiliating, although he may try to understand this. All this causes differences in preferences. Nevertheless the general tendency remains: persons interested in one practice are interested in other femdom practices too. Statistics from pornhub.com confirms this. According to their data, before searching for "cuckold" videos, people searched for videos of other femdom practices using phrases "sissy humiliation", "small penis humiliation", "mistress male slave" and, most importantly, "femdom humiliation". Femdom humiliation is the definition of any femdom practice. This proves that an interest in the topic of cuckolding implies an interest in other femdom practices too, and vice versa. The above evidence suggests that people are attracted to femdom by humiliation. It's not related to sexual orientation or gender. In the next chapter, we will look at what happens in the mind during a femdom session. P.S. I hope my texts help someone. Please consider donating to me. I would be pleased to receive at least something for my work, since I will never release a book for sale.